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The FlyLady Cleaning System- 7 Months Later

18 Jan

Back in June of 2019, I wrote a post all about how I tried the FlyLady Cleaning System for a Month. I wanted to share with you (well, those who are interested anyway!) how I’ve been keeping up with it and if I love it and if I recommend it still.

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Photo by Curology on Unsplash

First off, I’ll share what the Flylady system is, from Wikipedia –

“FlyLady is a support and self-help group that offers advice to help people with housekeeping, founded by “The FlyLady”, Marla Cilley. … FlyLady’s messages cover topics include clutter, the value of routines, weekly and monthly cleaning, increased self-esteem, and letting go of perfectionism.”

The FlyLady has you separate your home into five zones that you work through one each week. It’s a nice system that keeps you getting through your entire home every five weeks which, if you’re like most people, is more a more faithful timeline than otherwise you’d be doing those guest room closets or vacuuming under the furniture. Here’s what my home looks like, put into zones:

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You might notice that the dining room somehow didn’t get put into a zone. I’m not sure how that happened! But I’ve been seeing which zone it fits into the best (i.e. which one I’m more likely to get to it) before absolutely sticking it into one.

Since my original post, I have updated my lists – they are still handwritten although I do want to type them up one of these months.

 

I know, you can’t really read it that well what with it being handwritten and handwritten by me. (I’m telling you, my script hasn’t changed since I was about 10 years old. It’s terrible.) But hopefully, it’ll give you an idea of what I’m talking about with zones and such. I have written the lists so that the cleaning goes from top to bottom and I do try to stick with that although sometimes I just clean what I feel like that day. I have also changed/added to some of the lists as I realize that some things aren’t getting done (for example: cleaning the dishwasher and mopping the bedrooms).  The FlyLady is big on encouraging you to make it work for you.

Since I am human as well as having a chronic illness, my dedication to this cleaning system has waned at times but I am always glad when I come back to it. I took some (much needed) weeks off around the holidays and am still feeling like I’m trying to catch up, but that’s okay, I’m not pushing myself.  A little at a time is still progress.

All in all, I would still recommend this to you to try! I was greatly relieved when I was able to get off the FlyLady’s email list as there were several coming in each day, and all I needed was the daily/or weekly, cleaning list. So, once I had those all written down, I unsubscribed. If she pared down (significantly) what she sent out each day, I would still be getting them most likely, as it’s good encouragement and reminders. But, as frustrating as the deluge can be, it’s worth it to deal with them for the month-odd in order to really get a feel for the system.

I will add that I’m doing a very pared down version of her cleaning system. There’s also a focus for each day – paying bills, cleaning out your car, anti-procrastination, etc. that are very helpful! There are also missions for each day that are lickety-split cleaning focuses (like tossing the empty soap bottles in your bathroom) that I’m contemplating adding to my routine. Check out the website for more info.

I can’t finish this post without doing a shout out for the lady who got me turned onto the FlyLady system and that’s The Secret Slob. She’s so much fun to watch and she really breaks down the system into an easily understandable thing. Check out this video to see her one-year into FlyLady.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed with the state of your house, I suggest you give this a try. Even if you don’t end up using the system, it might spur you on to looking at cleaning as less of a beast – and feeling motivated to just do one small area of your house and feeling accomplished for having done it.

~Laura

 

I Tried FlyLady for a Month. Here’s What I Think

11 Jun

 

In the beginning of May I started reading up on a cleaning system. It’s called the FlyLady Cleaning System.

FlyLady is a support and self-help group that offers advice to help people with housekeeping, founded by “The FlyLady”, Marla Cilley. … FlyLady’s messages cover topics include clutter, the value of routines, weekly and monthly cleaning, increased self-esteem, and letting go of perfectionism.” – wikipedia

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Photo by Good Soul Shop on Unsplash

Now, I have to tell you that I’m not a naturally messy person – I can’t stand piles of anything laying around. The messier the space around me is, the more stressed out I get. I’m a self-professed clean freak. But.

I’m also chronically ill. And have been for the last 14 years. (*thankfully it’s only been the last @7 years that I haven’t been able to work.)  This means that I am just not able to keep the house at the level of clean that I want to. I wear out so easily and get frustrated that I can’t get to the deep cleaning because I’m struggling to just keep up with the daily.

Day 1 : I’d already prepped the lists to be ready for today. I did the Swish and Swipe, emptied the dishwasher and later in the afternoon, set my timer for 15 minutes. I wiped the counter and sink in the guest bath and then did a quick vacuum of the guest room. Since I still had (almost half) of my time left, I decided to do a quick vacuum of the whole house. I’ve also started a load of towels. I’m pleased with what I got done as I’m still battling fatigue today and a fluctuating migraine. Thankfully, I’ve been working on doing the dishes in the morning anyway so that habit was already started.

Day 2: a day of fatigue and migraine. I did the Swish and Swipe and emptied the dishwasher. Nothing else.

~I was going to keep track of the days but I didn’t… coughcough, but I feel like these two days give a good example of just how it goes. One or two days I’ll do well with hitting the 15 odd minutes of zone cleaning and the next, I’d do nothing. But that’s fine! Those few days I still made progress.

~It’s been over a week since I started the Flylady, but with fatigue hitting me last week as it did, I wasn’t able to keep up with even the Swish and Swipe (a quick scrub of the toilet and wipe of the sink). But, I have been more intentional (when I could be) about emptying the sink of dishes at night and having the kitchen counters clear and wiped off.  The relief in the morning of coming into a decently clean kitchen is definitely worth the extra effort in the evening.

~I’m noticing that I’m more intentional about doing quick wipe downs of things that before I would probably have waited until I was doing a full clean of the area/room.

So, while maybe I wasn’t quite as successful my first week as an unofficial FlyBaby, I’m already benefiting from this cleaning system.

My feelings, three weeks later, are the same. I am finding that I have started thinking about cleaning differently. Instead of seeing a whole room or situation that needs tackled, I am able to focus on one area (like cleaning out and wiping down a side table in the living room) and being proud of myself that I accomplished something. Now, I do want to point out that I did not follow her baby steps. As someone who wasn’t starting from a cluttered house, or from a lack of any sort of cleaning habits, I skipped the baby steps and settled into a wee bit of a morning routine and cleaning in zones. The point of Flylady, that I’ve gathered, is to make it WORK FOR YOU. Go as slow as you need to on her baby steps. Don’t go for perfection. Just jump in wherever they are in the daily emails and join them.

I’ll also add that I’ve not been good about setting the timer for 15 minutes. Maybe it’s because I move at a slow pace and know that if I try to hurry and get as much as possible done in that amount of time, I’ll end up causing my fibromyalgia to flare later, or I’ll just use all of my energy up and be stuck on the couch the rest of the day. So. I move at my own pace, get however much done in a bit of time and stop when I need to.

Now, the website is daunting. Don’t worry about it though. Just sign up for the emails and follow along. Since I didn’t start from the very beginning of Flybaby steps, I click through the email link to the current Zone Detailed Cleaning List and hand write those out. The emails are a bit overwhelming in their amount. But to deal with this, I’m thinking that once I’ve written all the detailed cleaning lists out, I’m going to unsubscribe from them. Once again though, if you really want to try this, don’t worry about it. Just delete the ones you don’t absolutely need in order to do this at your own pace.

As you can see in the first photo, I am not even attempting the evening routines. (you’re encouraged to take each task on one at a time, slowly building up to having these full routines morning and evening). Evenings are when my pain flares, so like I said before, the only thing I try for is to get the kitchen cleaned up. But, I wrote this list out at the very beginning, so I just ignore it now.

The second photo is of zone 3 and for me that means it’s the guest bath, guest bedroom and closet. This is my second time in this zone but apparently I already wiped away the check marks from last month! So sad.

And the third photo is zone 4 and for me that is main bed, bath and closet. It is encouraged that you go from the top of the list down, so that, when you come back to the zone the next month, you can pick up where you left off. And by doing that, you rotate nicely through the room over the months. But, as you can tell, I did what I felt like in the room and left it at that.

I am trying to follow that idea better in the other rooms now, because it does make sense. I even wrote out the list for the dining room from top to bottom cleaning (starting with dusting cobwebs, down to windows and ending with cleaning baseboards and mopping the floor).

What prompted me, as a person struggling with multiple chronic illnesses, to start this? I’ll tell you, The Secret Slob. She’s so fun to watch and breaks this system down into something a bit more understandable and manageable than the website does. Go check out her videos – she’s just finished up a video series of going through the zones with us. This one just might inspire me to fancy up my lists as well.

If you’re struggling to keep up on house cleaning, or are feeling like you’re drowning in clutter, I recommend you giving this cleaning system a shot! And if you do, come back and let me know, I would love to hear about it.

~Laura

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